Word of wisdom of today

1. Hot
2. Pretty
3. Gorgeous
4. Not good looking person
5. Someone else is better than me
6. LOYAL
7. You're BLIND.

Courtesy of A.H.

And they said woman are complicated?

I rest my case.

Puasa

People: Tasha, puasa tak hari ni?

Tasha: Yer... puasa.

People: Alhamdulillah, baguslah.

Tasha: You sembahyang tak hari ni?

People: (smile and walk off)

Dear PEOPLE,

Rukun Islam

Mengucap dua kalimah syahadah

Menunaikan solat fardu lima waktu

Berpuasa pada bulan Ramadan

Membayar zakat - Zakat fitrah, Zakat harta

Mengerjakan Haji di Mekah bagi mereka yang mampu

Sembahyang tu jatuh no 2, puasa jatuh no 3. hari2 perlu tanya org puasa ke tak. tp tak pernah soalkan pasal sembahyang. kenapa ek? 

Nothing personal actually. just pelik dgn BUDAYA kita. puasa 30 hari berkobar2 buat, siap perli2 org tak puasa. Kalo tak puasa kena tangkap dgn jabatan, tak sembahyang camne lak? well, for me, ibadah tu just keep it to yourself. I puasa or not, sembahyang or not, I dont have to announce it to the whole world.

I'm just sick of these environment. 

Selamat berpuasa to all muslim,

and also to my fellow friends yg baru blaja berpuasa.

bravo guys.

May god bless us all.

I love my blog - Part I

For those out there, who owns a blog, a journal, or anything like that, this entry is dedicated to you guys. 


Ok, i'm facing  a case right here. i talk to one of my good friend on the net last night. she's a fun amazing girl. well, i hope she won't mind me writing bout her case here. just to share experience. She told me that she just deleted her blog, her 4 years blog. personally, i love her writing and i love that blog. never missed an entry. it's a personal blog, so she blog bout whatever happens around her. including the guy she had crush on, what she ate, family issue, yada yada yada. you know what i mean, right? 

So, i was shocked. For me, to delete something that you work on dedicatedly, for a few years, is just insane. Yes, for some of us out there, it's just a blog. something you put on the net. that's all. for me, well, i guess, for MOST bloggers, our blog is one of our most treasured treasure. Yeah, what the heck, i just write shits here, gossip bout my friend, talk shit bout my enemy, blabber bout my fashion sense, stuff i like, my Jack, and some other unimportant stuff. i think, even though what i write is junk, i still love this blog. the place where i express myself, be honest, totally honest, and learn more bout myself. trust me, i find it fun, reading on my own journal. thinking, how silly i was, back then. of course, learning from mistakes, day by day. 

Well, the reason why she deleted her blog was, she thinks that she can no more be herself there. she can no more write flawlessly. she can't be honest bout her feelings, she can't write some stuff and she have to think twice before writing anything there. Reason? Because the guy she love the most, is stalking her blog, and questioning every single piece she write there. questions like, "Why do you write that?", "Why do you do that?", "why do you think like that?" and etc. this is so frustrating. even for me. i've been through that. it feels like shit. i was like, "WTF, this is my freaking blog!". this is how i feel, deal with it. trust me, i've reach that moment, where i can no longer be myself in my blog. it's such a turn off for me. i don't know what to write. so, i decided just not to write, which is another frustrating case, because i love to write, even though i sucks in writing. i know, nobody gonna read my piece of junk here, but hey, i love this blog. deal with it. 

Ok, a piece of advice for you guys/girls out there. if your man/woman owns a blog, try to read her blog with an open mind. treat yourself as one of the reader, not as their bf/gf. of course, you can question us bout anything that we write in the blog, but please be careful with your words and tone. words could be harmful, tone could make it worst. don't make us feel pressured writing. we're just having fun, sharing our piece of mind right here. nothing much. one more thing, when we write something here, please don't take it too seriously. like, when i tell you guys, i hate my mom. well, that's just a 5 minutes moment of my life. shits happen. we all have our boiling point, and i'm not ashamed to admit that my boiling point is very low. i can reach there very fast. so, don't trigger it. be smart, like my Jack. he knows how to deal with me, even when i'm angry. 

All I want to do, is write, and, maybe, 20 years from now, read this blog through, before i die, thinking of years of my life. At least, there's a prove that Tasha Leow was once there in everyone's life. This blog, is a living prove. Trust me, you'll treasure this junk, one fine day. Cheers to all writers around the world. I SALUTE you guys. Never ever give up people. Don't stop writing, because, there's someone out there reading!

P/s: She retrieved her blog, and she never felt better. Never give up, babe! I'm with you.

P/s/s: I have a dream of registering for copywrights in the name of Tasha Leow, one fine day.

P/s/s/s: Wait for Part II of this issue. Gonna post it later, at night.

Blogger since August 2006,

Tasha Leow

30 Perkara Perempuan...

Well, aku suka benda ni. si Safiza share kat wall FB. I think most of it are true ;)

Let's compare.

1. Bila sorang wanita mengatakan dia sedang bersedih,tetapi dia tidak menitiskan airmata,itu bermakna dia sedang menangis di dalam hatinya. 

 [not me. aku jenis tak bagitau terus aku sedih. simpan sorang lagi bagus.]

2. Bila dia tidak menghiraukan kamu selepas kamu menyakiti hatinya, lebih baik kamu beri dia masa untuk menenangkan hatinya semula sebelum kamu menegur dengan ucapan maaf. 

 [phew... this is soooooooo TASHA! aku benci org kacau aku bila aku tgh angin. pi dok jauh2.]

3. Wanita sukar nak cari benda yang dia benci tentang orang yang paling dia sayang (sebab itu ramai wanita yang patah hati bila hubungan itu putus di tengah jalan). 

[true. even if 100 people ckp benda tu betul, we'll always be in denial. hoping that our man is just not the way they describe him. what a fool kan?] 

4. Sekiranya sorang wanita jatuh cinta dengan sorang lelaki, lelaki itu akan sentiasa ada di fikirannya walaupun ketika dia sedang keluar dengan lelaki lain. 

[mestilah. klua dgn my boys, my Jack is still in my head.] 

5. Bila lelaki yang dia suka dan cinta merenung tajam ke dalam matanya, dia akan cair seperti coklat!! 

[erghhh not me kot? i will fight back.] 

6. Wanita memang sukakan pujian tetapi selalu tidak tau macam mana nak menerima pujian. 

[sumpah, aku tak suka. aku rasa benda tu fake. because i know myself very well. aku tak perlu org utk bagitau aku.] 

7. Jika kamu tidak suka dengan gadis yang sukakan kamu separuh mati,tolak cintanya dengan lembut,jangan berkasar sebab ada satu semangat dalam diri wanita yang kamu tak akan tahu bila dia dah buat keputusan,dia akan lakukan apa saja. 

[true on most girls. definitely not me. ko tak suka aku, ko nye pasal. aku carik lain.] 

8. Sekiranya sorang gadis mula menjauhkan diri darimu selepas kamu tolak cintanya,biarkan dia untuk seketika.Sekiranya kamu masih ingin menganggap dia sorang kawan,cubalah tegur dia perlahan-lahan. 

 [again not me. btw, aku tak pernah confess kat sapa2 pun. so aku tatau benda ni sgt]

9. Wanita suka meluahkan apa yang mereka rasa.Muzik,puisi,lukisan dan tulisan adalah cara termudah mereka meluahkan isi hati mereka. 

[oh yes. so true. i write here, i have a thick notebook of poem, and aku pun melukis. yes, i can draw, perfectly.] 

10. Jangan sesekali beritahu perempuan yang mereka ni lansung tak berguna. 

[try bagitau aku tgk. kalau ang tak balik kaki senget, dont call me tasha!] 

11. Bersikap terlalu serius boleh mematikan mood wanita. 

[nope, it turns me on! yehaaaa. men looks hot when they're serious.] 

12. Bila pertama kali lelaki yang dicintainya dalam diam memberikan respon positif,misalnya menghubunginya melalui telefon,si gadis akan bersikap acuh tak acuh seolah-olah tidak berminat,tetapi sebaik saja ganggang diletakkan,dia akanmenjerit kesukaan dan tak sampai sepuluh minit,semua rakan-rakannya akan tahu berita tersebut. 

[yeah, benda ni penah jadi masa aku dgn imran. muka buat relek je. padahal balik umah melompat2 dgn emi & maryam. waakakakakaka.]

13. Sekuntum senyuman memberi seribu erti bagi wanita.Jadi jangan senyum sebarangan. 

 [ntah, aku tak pernah perasan lak benda ni.]

14. Jika kamu menyukai sorang wanita,cubalah mulakan denganpersahabatan.Kemudian biarkan dia mengenalimu dengan lebih mendalam. 

[hell no!!! BIG NO for me. aku benci kapel dgn kawan.] 

15. Jika sorang wanita memberi seribu satu alasan setiap kali kamu ajak keluar,tinggalkan dia sebab dia memang tak berminat denganmu. 

 [tak jugak. aku reject imran 7 kali sebelum aku betul2 klua on date. wakakakak. kesian budak tu.]

16. Tetapi jika dalam masa yang sama dia menghubungimu atau menunggu panggilan darimu,teruskan usahamu untuk memikatnya. 

[maybe dia just menggedik kot pompuan tu? ish..] 

17. Jangan sesekali mengagak apa yang dirasakannya.Tanya dia sendiri!! 

[i think my Jack knows this. nak tau apa2 takyah teka2 takyah tanya org lain, DIRECT je!] 

18. Selepas sorang gadis jatuh cinta,dia akan sering tertanya-tanya kenapalah aku tak jumpa lelaki ini lebih awal.  

 [no lah. benda ni back to basic. back to qada' and qadar.]

19. Kalau kamu masih tercari-cari cara yang paling romantik untuk memikat hati sorang gadis,cubalah rajin-rajinkan tangan menyelak buku-buku cinta. 

[euwww...OMG so typical. takyah la bro. ko direct je lagi bagus kot. tak semua pompuan layan ayat2 ni.] 

20. Bila setiap kali gambar kelas keluar,benda pertama yang dicari oleh wanita ialah siapa yang berdiri di sebelah buah hatinya, kemudian barulah dirinya sendiri. 

[ni zaman budak skolah ke ape ni? even back in college, i never bothered who dance with my guy kat any party. aku ni pelik kot?] 

21. Bekas teman lelaki akan sentiasa ada di fikirannya tetapi lelaki yang dicintainya sekarang akan berada di tempat teristimewa iaitu di hatinya!! 

[yes, he will always be here in my head. tp you're my number one, Jack] 

 22. Satu ucapan 'Hi/Assalamualaikum' sahaja sudah cukup menceriakan harinya. 

[yes true. even a simple sms. trust me, we women will just smile one whole day for that.] 

23. Teman baiknya saja yang tahu apa yang sedang dia rasa dan lalui. 

[pergh... kalau pi interview maryam pasal aku, dia boleh buat buku berjilid. wakakakak.] 

24. Wanita paling benci lelaki yang berbaik-baik dengan mereka semata-mata nak tackle kawan mereka yang paling cantik. 

 [aku tau la kawan2 aku hot, aku buruk, jgn la angpa mai buat baik dgn aku sebab nak ngorat depa. sumpah tak dpt. kami semua TAKEN ok!]

25. Cinta bermaksud kesetiaan, ambil berat, jujur dan kebahagiaan tanpa sebarang kompromi. 

[me and Jack, we hold strong on TRUST. we trust each other so much. yg lain2 tak kisah sgt.] 

26. Semua wanita mahukan sorang lelaki yang cintakan mereka sepenuh hati.. 

[impossible jugak. lelaki ni selalunya distracted. even ade pompuan menggedik tepi dia, kalau dia tak sayang pun, dia akan layan jugak. YES WOMEN, this is the fact bout MAN! so jgn la menggedik dgn hak org. confirm2 la awek dia tak suka. tp kalau bf aku, pegi je la. aku tak kisah. coz i know this fact long time ago. takde effect bagi aku. eh pjg plak komen kat no 26 ni.] 

 27. Senjata wanita adalah airmata!! 

[itu semua accusation lelaki. bagi aku tak kot. tears tu satu benda yg honest. shows our feelings. ape ingat pompuan ni suka2 nak nangis. bengap ke ko ni?] 

28. Wanita suka jika sesekali orang yang disayanginya mengadakan surprisebuatnya  (hadiah,bunga atau sekadar kad ucapan romantis). Mereka akan rasa terharu dan merasakan bahawa dirinya dicintai setulus hati. Dengan i! ni dia tak akan ragu-ragu terhadapmu. 

[Kalau couple lelaki melayu susah kot nak dpt benda2 ni? wakakakaka. well, from my experience la kan. i dated foreigners, and i think they're such a bomb! sometimes pegi kelas, on your fav table kat lecture hall, ade post-it notes, saying i miss u. wakakakaak. malay man, aku tak penah nampak lagi kot.] 

29. Wanita mudah jatuh hati pada lelaki yang ambil berat tentang mereka dan baik terhadapnya. So,kalau nak memikat wanita pandai-pandailah... 

[tak jugak. most friends ambik berat gak ape? so jgn salah faham la.] 

30. Sebenarnya mudah mengambil hati wanita kerana apa yang dia mahu hanyalah perasaan dicintai dan disayangi sepenuh jiwa. 

[again women, aku dah tak larat nak ckp. man can never love you 100%. they're always distracted by other things. you have to settle down just by 90% of love. lagi 10% tatau pi mana. tanya dia. different guy, different answer. for my Jack, lagi 10% goes to his movies, poker, and friends. LOL.]

ok, settle. bukan nak suruh angpa paham aku. just nak emphasize that not all of us WOMEN are the same.  well, i know it's kinda impossible to understand us, but at least, give it your best shot. we just need a lil of your attention, that's all.

tasha leow

Is flirting considered as cheating?

Situation 1:

You have a gorgeous friend, and he/she is sort of giving you a hint. Like, hey, let's go out for supper, i'm hungry! The thing is, you can obviously see that he/she is giving you the flirtatious voice. So question here, is it proper to go out with him/her, even as friends? Should we bring some friends, just to make it clear that we're just having supper. No other intention. FULL STOP?

Situation 2: 

Ok Facebook issue. He/she seems interested in your activity there. Whatever you posted, whatever quizzes you take, whatever status you made, he/she will write a comment, or at least "like" it. Is he/she viewing and refreshing your page every 10 seconds or what? ok whatever. My issue here is, how do we tackle this kinda thing? I mean, we don't want to hurt our loved ones. We don't want them to feel insecure or jealous or sad. Sometimes, we don't realize that we're replying flirtatious comments too. 

Situation 3:

We joke around with nicknames. You know, like calling them dear, sweetheart, beautiful, handsome, etc. Yeah, I understand it's just a joke. nothing much. but will it hurt our loved ones when they read them? Will it? Is that considered as "slightly cheating"? I mean, we might not have any intention by giving out those nicknames, but, the other party might get it wrong. He/she might think that we're interested in them. Sometimes, when i read some comments that some people wrote, it struck me, won't their bf/gf feel awkward? What do they do? Just pretend it didn't happen? Or just reply that comment with something cynical? Or just ask that person to mind their language? What do you think? 

Situation 4:

He/she started asking bout your guy/girl. What is that suppose to mean? He/she wants to feel better, or he/she wants to compete with your guy/girl? I think this is another hint of flirtation. A person won't ask so much question on your guy/girl, unless if they're interested in you. So, if you detect this kind of thing, what will you do? It's obvious he/she is doing the "good character" in front of you, by asking all those so-called routine question bout your loved ones, while what they really want is actually to get you! So, if we were to reply to their question, are we cheating on our man/woman?

*********

Well, nothing much. Just an issue that i just thought of. Sometimes, i think we human failed to see the silver-lining of an issue. We might think that it's absolutely normal to act that way, but to our surprise, our spouse doesn't think that way. So, what is the best way to handle all this 4 situation, so that nobody get hurt? I admit, sometimes, i ACCIDENTALLY flirt with some guys, in a cafe, in a bar, at work, in college, even when i go jogging! Ok, what i meant by flirting here is, just giving response, not OBVIOUSLY throwing myself out there. You know what i mean right?

So, what i'm trying to say here is, i think, there's a fine line between flirting and cheating.   My case, if i ever see any of this on my page, or, on Jack's page, i'll just consider it fooling around. Sometimes, i think that we human always wants attention from the opposite sex. we tends to get attracted by them, even though we know that we love our man/woman. Maybe it's just a phase.

Back to my question. Is flirting considered as cheating?

What do you think? Drop me your opinion on this ;)

Tasha Leow

Someone

Setelah kamu memberi banyak PENGHARAPAN kepada seseorang. Setelah ia mulai MENYAYANGIMU hendaklah kamu MENJAGA hatinya. Janganlah sesekali kamu meninggalkannya begitu saja. Kerana dia akan TERLUKA oleh kenangan bersamamu dan mungkin TIDAK dapat MELUPAKAN segalanya selagi dia mengingatmu. Apabila sekali dia melakukan KESILAPAN bukan mudah bagi kamu untuk menerimanya. akhirnya kamu KECEWA dan meninggalkannya. Sedangkan jika kamu MEMAAFKANNYA boleh jadi hubungan kamu akan TERUS hingga ke akhirnya.Begitu juga jika kamu telah bertemu dengan seorang insan, yang pasti membawa KEBAIKAN kepada dirimu. MENYAYANGIMU, MENGASIHIMU. Mengapa kamu berlengah, cuba MEMBANDINGKANNYA dengan yang lain.Terlalu mengejar kesempurnaan. Kelak, kamu akan KEHILANGANNYA apabila dia menjadi milik orang lain.

Nicely said. Something to look over. Read it somewhere in Facebook. Thanks to Izan for sharing this :)

Facebook

Facebook.

One word.
Such a big influence in our life.

We do silly things there.
We chat with our friends.
We share our love there.
We meet new people.

Some people break up because of facebook.
Some people have a fight because of facebook.
Some find out that their man is not loyal, on facebook.
Some find out their loved ones history on facebook.
Some find the truth, even it hurts, on facebook.

Question is..... how do we deal with it?

Do we just leave?
Do we confront the person?
Do we just pretend it never happen?

What say you?

[LEAVE YOUR COMMENT] 

Tasha Leow

Mas Kahwin :)

nothing much.

small talk kat FB.

thought of sharing it here.

baca kalau rajin :)

komen kalau rasa perlu.

P/s: For those who don't know.... Ace Heart tu aku. Don't get confused which one is me, aite? :)

P/s/s: click utk besarkan pic. don't worry, angpa tak rabun lagi. mmg gambaq ni kecik. wakakaka.

Isu kecik

Aku ada satu isu kecik.

Bila aku nak menstrual, aku akan teringin makan something.

Benda yang aku nak makan tak tetap.

Kadang-kadang KFC.

Kadang-kadang nasik lauk ikan keli bakar.

Kadang-kadang nak makan mushroom soup yg B masak. *ok i just miss his cooking, not him*

Kadang-kadang just a small piece of chocolate will do.

Bila aku nak menstrual, aku emosi.

Aku cepat sakit hati.

Aku cepat kecik hati.

Aku cepat naik angin (errr mmg aku baran pun, tp this is worst)

****

Berbalik pada isu kecik tu.

Aku pegi beli makanan yang aku nak tu.

Pegi beli dengan mama aku.

Masa beli, aku mention dekat dia, aku teringin.

Aku tanya dia, "nak tak? I beli 2".

Dia ckp, "taknak".

Balik rumah, aku terus naik atas.

Online, then aku tertido.

Pukul 4 pagi aku terbangun, lapar.

Memang kadang-kadang aku makan lewat macam ni.

Balik kerja aku slalu takde mood nak makan.

Aku turun bawah, macam biasa.

Found out that someone ate my food.

I'd bet a million dollar it's mama.

Because my abah don't eat that.

Neither does my brother.

Because he's fast asleep by then.

Ok, memang satu isu kecik.

Yer yer, korang akan ckp, dengan mama pun nak berkira ke?

But that's not the issue.

Aku nak menstrual.

Aku TERINGIN.

It's fucking 4 a.m. here.

Where can I buy that shit?

My feeling are mixed right now.

Sedih, frustrated, angry, cranky. cranky, cranky.

She tak faham kah malam tadi aku dah cakap, aku TERINGIN?

Or she purposely ignore the fact that I want that shit.

Aku dah tanya malam tadi, nak ke taknak?

At least leave for me some.

Seriously, i feel like knocking her door, and question her bout this.

But I fucking know that it's rude to fucking knock someone's door at 4 a.m.

The thing is, why should i care bout being rude while she dont even think of me?

Oh ya, maybe that's what i call civilization.

I still think bout others, while she doesn't seem to care!

Ok people, you may start.

Judge me.

Ramble to me.

Talk shit bout me. 

Yeah it's my mom.

But if she's my mom,

she should know better.

****

Aku ada satu isu kecik.

And it'll always be bout mom.

Where people will come to me,

and "advice" me to be a good daughter.

It's nothing, really.

Just, satu isu kecik.

For once, please don't judge me.

I'm just a menstrual woman who didn't get her stuff.

Maybe you won't understand.

Because you've got the most perfect mom in the world.

Trust me, 

My mom and I, go wayyyyy behind.

Today,

She really remind me of who I am with her.

Eight years ago.

Aku ada satu isu kecik.

And i'm gonna deal with it tomorrow morning.

Which I know, I'll get a denial answer.

Damn, klise gile!

PREDICTABLE.

So, baik takyah tanya.

Besok ajak my besties pegi makan.

And besok aku sure perang dingin.

I won't talk, THE WHOLE DAY.

Ok everyone, stop judging me.

The reason why I write it here,

is because I don't want to confront her.

It makes me relax, typing here.

So, stop being paranoid over me,

talking shit bout my mom.

I just need a one-stop-solution,

to talk crap and shits.

I'll be fine by tomorrow.

Aku ada isu kecik.

Hangpa semua toksah dok buat kalut sangat.

Komen biaq elok skit, takyah nasihat bagai.

Cuba komen simpati skit. 

Aku tak dapat apa aku nak.

TAKYAH komen cakap,

TAK BAIK cakap macam tu pasal mak.

Tu aku tau. Takyah habaq.

Thank you, for reading this session of therapy.

Maryam besok jom teman aku pi Sg. Ara!

Nak makannnnnnnn.

Tasha Leow

Not Everyone Wants The Same Shit.

Phases of life in Malaysia:

• Graduate high school, received SPM cert.
• Get Diploma/A-Level/Pre-U/Matriculation/etc.
• Pursue Degree.
• Work your ass out.
• Climb up career ladder, or in some cases, career remain static.

ok... what's next???? 

Your makcik, pakcik, kepoci neighbour, kawan-kawan stereotaip, penyibuk-penyibuk di FB, and etc expects you to

• GET MARRIED!!!???!!!????????!!!!????!!!

ok, i understand, marriage is one phase of life that everyone, i mean, MOST of us, will go through. but please put in your mind that NOT EVERYONE WANTS THE SAME SHIT. ok, i'm not implying that getting married is a SHIT. just stressing out the point that we all wants different shit of things. 

whenever i made a statement, "i dont want to get married", everyone will go like, OMG. and i will receive comments like;

"kawin tu menyempurnakan kehidupan"

"kawin tu best"

"ko taknak kawin ke" (said with a shocking face)

u know, such a comment.

damn it people, what's wrong with u guys?

• korang kawin awal, I NEVER SAY A WORD.
• korang anak 2,3,4,5,6,7...... I NEVER SAY A WORD.
• korang kawin laki org, I NEVER SAY A WORD.
• korang call aku, gaduh dgn laki korang, i listen attentively, and, I NEVER SAY A WORD.
• korang citer and bitch bout ur in laws, I NEVER SAY A WORD.

byk lagi la isu. but i think u got my point here.

so, with this, takyah la korang nak judge life aku. suka hati aku la nak kawin ke tak ke. the thing is, even my Jack never say a word bout it. he never complaints. why do you guys have to be so "CARING" all of the sudden? why? just to compare who's got the best husband? best wedding? best flawless ring? best wedding dresses? OMG. LAME, may i say. 

yes, most of you would want to get married. 

no, i dont want to get married. 

i'm not saying that this is my permanent decision FOREVER. just not now. what is the big fuss anyway? when i told you i dont have any plans on marriage, all of you act as if i'm an alien. HELLO people, worlds doesnt evolve just around you, you know?

how can you say that getting married is the best thing ever? i mean, back to what my dad said. he always tells me not to say something is THE BEST, unless you've experience it all. so, i'm asking you one question. how do you say, being married is the best life ever? how do you know being single is not the best life ever? HOW?

DEFINE HAPPINESS?

well, you can't, can you?

because happiness is a very subjective manner.

furthermore, everyone calls me materialistic for demanding a house and a Tiffany. WHO THE HECK are you to care? seriously? for heaven's sake, if i'm not getting any of that from the man that i love, i'll get it myself. i know i can afford that. what's your problem? seriously?

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ok, lemme share my idea of a perfect life to you.

you might have a different perspective of life. 

that's what made this world so colorful anyway.

feel free to share it in my comment box.

it's open for all.

My idea of a perfect life:

• Being an Art Director in a publishing company.
• Own at least 3 business, running smoothly.
• Get out from office the latest at 6.
• Have drinks with my girls after work.
• A great date with the person i love, that'll be dinner.
• Go back home, do my personal stuff, such as, do my nails, reading my fav book, watching TV series, etc.
• Go for short trip on weekends. 
• Go to spa whenever i feel like it.
• Own a town house, beach house and a service resident condo.

ok that's it. that's what i want to achieve in life. yeah, most of you will say, i'm dreaming too much. i'm being arrogant. bla bla bla. but this is a dream. my dream life. nobody have the right to condemn it. because everyone have their own preferences in life.

so, the point of this entry is.....

STOP ASKING ME WHEN AM I GETTING MARRIED.

and 

STOP JUDGING ME FOR BEING SINGLE.

*by SINGLE, i mean, not married. I'm not single. I'm taken, by Jack*

and

I HAVE A GREAT, FANTASTIC LIFE, ENOUGH SAID.

P/s: even if i'm getting married, you're not invited. thank you.

Ace

Tasha Leow